Beautiful Anna with her bright pink cast. One down, three to go.
Wednesday, September 28, 2005
Family Home Evening at our house
Monday night comes around but once a week (just in case you didn't know that), and it is a time that our kids genuinely look forward to. They love having Family Home Evening (even if Greg and I don't always love it). Some go better than others. We just had a whopper doosey this past Monday. It started off fine enough. Adam was in charge and he led us through the song, prayer, and a very nice lesson. Then it was time for the activity and treat.
The kids were getting restless, as Adam had taken a little more time on his lesson than perhaps was necessary. The kids and I headed in to the kitchen to get started on making some cookies. The girls were standing on a chair (the same chair) near the sink so they could wash their hands. They couldn't reach however, so I scooted the chair a little closer, as I often do.
Well, that was the end of Family Home Evening. Anna, fell off the chair and landed hard on her right arm on the floor. Anna was not only in tears, but screaming. I looked at her arm, and right away I thought there might be something wrong. We put an ice pack on it, and held her for a while. Greg and I took turns holding Anna, and rushing the other kids into bed. After a little while, Anna stopped crying. Greg had her do some movements with her wrist and fingers and sort of poked around on her arm. It was still swollen, but it seemed like she had good movement and wasn't in excruiating pain. We elected to wait until the morning and see how things looked.
She slept fine that night. In the morning, she seemed very careful of that hand and there were certain things that seemed to hurt it. To me it also looked crooked, but she wasn't complaining about a lot of pain. After Greg went to work, I decided it would be best to bring her in. They did x-rays and a little exam and sure enough it was broken. Apparently this is a VERY common injury in children. Also, FYI young children's bones don't usually break clear through. They usually just buckle, or bend. So really they are just broken on one side. In Anna's case it was her radius bone in her right arm. Unfortunately they wouldn't cast her arm there, at our pediatrician's office. They had to set us up with an orthopedic later in the afternoon. That was a short little visit, and then they put Anna in a very bright pink cast. She will only have to wear it for 2-3 weeks.
All in all she has been amazing. She was awesome for the exams and x-rays, and even getting on her cast (and man did we have a creepy guy doing that job). Moral of the story: actually there are two. One: breaking your arm cuts family home evening short. Two: Anna is an awesome kid. Okay, okay there are three. Don't move a chair when your child is standing on it.
The kids were getting restless, as Adam had taken a little more time on his lesson than perhaps was necessary. The kids and I headed in to the kitchen to get started on making some cookies. The girls were standing on a chair (the same chair) near the sink so they could wash their hands. They couldn't reach however, so I scooted the chair a little closer, as I often do.
Well, that was the end of Family Home Evening. Anna, fell off the chair and landed hard on her right arm on the floor. Anna was not only in tears, but screaming. I looked at her arm, and right away I thought there might be something wrong. We put an ice pack on it, and held her for a while. Greg and I took turns holding Anna, and rushing the other kids into bed. After a little while, Anna stopped crying. Greg had her do some movements with her wrist and fingers and sort of poked around on her arm. It was still swollen, but it seemed like she had good movement and wasn't in excruiating pain. We elected to wait until the morning and see how things looked.
She slept fine that night. In the morning, she seemed very careful of that hand and there were certain things that seemed to hurt it. To me it also looked crooked, but she wasn't complaining about a lot of pain. After Greg went to work, I decided it would be best to bring her in. They did x-rays and a little exam and sure enough it was broken. Apparently this is a VERY common injury in children. Also, FYI young children's bones don't usually break clear through. They usually just buckle, or bend. So really they are just broken on one side. In Anna's case it was her radius bone in her right arm. Unfortunately they wouldn't cast her arm there, at our pediatrician's office. They had to set us up with an orthopedic later in the afternoon. That was a short little visit, and then they put Anna in a very bright pink cast. She will only have to wear it for 2-3 weeks.
All in all she has been amazing. She was awesome for the exams and x-rays, and even getting on her cast (and man did we have a creepy guy doing that job). Moral of the story: actually there are two. One: breaking your arm cuts family home evening short. Two: Anna is an awesome kid. Okay, okay there are three. Don't move a chair when your child is standing on it.
Saturday, September 24, 2005
Update on the Finch Family
It's been a few weeks since I've posted anything, so I thought I'd just give a quick update on what's been going on around the Finch home. We've unfortunately had a lot of sickness in the house over the past two weeks. Adam woke up two weeks ago with a fever and had to miss almost a full week of school before it went away. As soon as Adam got rid of it, Anna and Lizzy both picked it up. They were running fevers off and on until mid-week of this past week. That's when Ben managed to get it. He, being so little, seemed to have it worst of all. He developed a pretty bad cough and congestion. For a while it was pretty hard for him to breathe and that would get him frustrated and so he would try to cry, but crying hurt too much so he would mostly just whimper. It was a sad time while he was sick. Now the kids are mostly over it (still some minor coughs) but Tammy woke up this morning with the fever, sore throat, etc so on we go. I'm the only one so far that's been able to avoid the illness - I'm sure my turn is coming. Hopefully, we're all activating our immune systems so that we'll have an illness free winter!
During all those days of sickness, we did enjoy a visit from Grandma and Grandpa Ebbert. They were here from Thursday to Wednesday of this past week. With all the sickness we weren't able to get out much, but did enjoy time visiting. We also very much appreciate all the work they did around our house. Tammy kept Grandpa busy with lots of house projects that I've been neglecting since we've moved here. He even helped hang some pictures - something we've been meaning to do for weeks. Thank you Grandpa!
Given all the natural disasters of the past few weeks, we decided we needed to take a more serious look at our own preparedness, so we had declared today to be our preparedness day. We spent the day teaching the kids about different kinds of disasters that could get us here and what to do for each. We also refilled all of our water storage containers (which have been empty since we moved) and started to think about getting 72-hour kits together. We still have a long way to go in the preparedness category, but having a little something done feels pretty good. The kids were all very interested in what we were doing and each worked hard to help out. It was a fun day together (except that mom wasn't feeling real well!).
One last note - this is some news I learned yesterday that was pretty exciting for me. Several years ago during my last couple of years at BYU, I worked for a non-profit organization called the Waterford Institute. The goal of the Waterford Institute is to create educational software to help young children learn basic skills such as reading, writing, and math. We were basically making computer games that helped kids to learn these skills. The project I worked on the whole time I was there was the first grade reading program - I did the programming work for maybe 1/5 or so of the product. We had just finished the product when I left Waterford to move out here.
I've always kind of wished that my kids could benefit from the Waterford programs, but never really expected that. They're designed for school classrooms and are only sold to schools, so we couldn't exactly buy them for home. Given the large amount of educational software on the market these days, I never thought that it would actually end up in my kids schools.
Well, we just found out yesterday that Pleasant View Elementary has recently purchased the Waterford Early Reading Program. Beginning in a week or so, Adam will be using the first grade reading program (the one that I worked on) for 20 minutes or so each day. I was so excited when I learned that! It's really neat for me to know that he'll be using something that I had spent so much time on long before he was even born. While I don't expect him to gain a whole lot from it (his reading skills are well above anything we taught in that program), I still hope he will enjoy some of the games. I expect the program will still be around when Anna arrives at first grade and I do expect that it will be a benefit to her - I think she'll be at a more normal first grade level and I think they are the kinds of activities she will absolutely love.
During all those days of sickness, we did enjoy a visit from Grandma and Grandpa Ebbert. They were here from Thursday to Wednesday of this past week. With all the sickness we weren't able to get out much, but did enjoy time visiting. We also very much appreciate all the work they did around our house. Tammy kept Grandpa busy with lots of house projects that I've been neglecting since we've moved here. He even helped hang some pictures - something we've been meaning to do for weeks. Thank you Grandpa!
Given all the natural disasters of the past few weeks, we decided we needed to take a more serious look at our own preparedness, so we had declared today to be our preparedness day. We spent the day teaching the kids about different kinds of disasters that could get us here and what to do for each. We also refilled all of our water storage containers (which have been empty since we moved) and started to think about getting 72-hour kits together. We still have a long way to go in the preparedness category, but having a little something done feels pretty good. The kids were all very interested in what we were doing and each worked hard to help out. It was a fun day together (except that mom wasn't feeling real well!).
One last note - this is some news I learned yesterday that was pretty exciting for me. Several years ago during my last couple of years at BYU, I worked for a non-profit organization called the Waterford Institute. The goal of the Waterford Institute is to create educational software to help young children learn basic skills such as reading, writing, and math. We were basically making computer games that helped kids to learn these skills. The project I worked on the whole time I was there was the first grade reading program - I did the programming work for maybe 1/5 or so of the product. We had just finished the product when I left Waterford to move out here.
I've always kind of wished that my kids could benefit from the Waterford programs, but never really expected that. They're designed for school classrooms and are only sold to schools, so we couldn't exactly buy them for home. Given the large amount of educational software on the market these days, I never thought that it would actually end up in my kids schools.
Well, we just found out yesterday that Pleasant View Elementary has recently purchased the Waterford Early Reading Program. Beginning in a week or so, Adam will be using the first grade reading program (the one that I worked on) for 20 minutes or so each day. I was so excited when I learned that! It's really neat for me to know that he'll be using something that I had spent so much time on long before he was even born. While I don't expect him to gain a whole lot from it (his reading skills are well above anything we taught in that program), I still hope he will enjoy some of the games. I expect the program will still be around when Anna arrives at first grade and I do expect that it will be a benefit to her - I think she'll be at a more normal first grade level and I think they are the kinds of activities she will absolutely love.
Monday, September 19, 2005
Ben's First Birthday
Well, one very long year has passed since our sweet little Ben was born. His birthday was yesterday, September 18. We are thankful for his good health and cheery smile. It is an exciting time when a baby turns one. Ben has been such a great blessing to our home. He is very laid back and cheerful. He knows how to make us all smile. He is crawling around like crazy now, but still resistive to standing alone. He is really in no hurry to walk. He has five teeth and another that is trying to come through. He still will not eat baby food, and now is even becoming more picky about what people food he eats. If he doesn't like something, or he is done, he just throws it on the floor. Banana is not very fun to clean up off the floor, or any place else for that matter. He is still a mama's boy. He has even started screaming and pulling on anyone who is on HIS mom's lap. Lizzy gets the brunt of that I'm afraid, and it is not uncommon for him to make her cry. I am still nursing him, but we have left him with a babysitter a few times, and it has gone fine. When he is happy he is just a joy to be around. It seems like even though this has been an incredibly hard year for our family, it has gone by so quickly. I can hardly believe my baby is 1! I didn't cry like I did when Adam turned one. This time I think I am relieved that he is 1 and that our other children are growing up too. My grandma and grandpa were here to share in the fun of Ben's birthday. If my dad were here, we would have ages spanning four generations. How cool is that. We love our Benner boy. We hope he had a great Birthday.
Saturday, September 10, 2005
Happy Birthday Tammy!
Today is Tammy's 30th Birthday. Yes, she's officially not a youngster anymore. She and I have been married for almost eight years now (can you believe it?) so I think I'm just about qualified to talk about how wonderful she is. (She's thinking - well, after eight years, it's about time!)
Let me just start by talking about how good she is to me. As we've mentioned, this has been a very busy summer for me - especially at work. I've never really had to work a lot of overtime in my career, but the last month or so has seen a lot of it. I know that it's taken a toll on our family and on Tammy, but she never complains about it. On those really long nights, she would always greet me with a smile when I finally made it home.
Tammy is an outstanding mother (a quick look at our kids is proof of that)! Having four little ones six and under is no small chore, but she excels at it. On top of her "normal" duties as a mother (is being a mother ever really "normal" - I don't think so, but hopefully you know what I mean), she is going the extra mile by teaching Adam piano lessons, teaching Anna reading lessons, and spending many hours teaching in lots of other ways to all the kids. I recognize how obedient and thoughtful and intelligent and talented our little ones are and I attribute most of that to Tammy's outstanding skills as a mother.
I know it is a husband's duty to be spiritual leader in a home, but in this home, mom leads the way in that category (and in most other categories). Tammy has a deep and true testimony of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and it shows in every aspect of her life. She is regularly showing me the example when it comes to living the gospel and when she's not leading, she's gently prodding me in the right directions. I look back on many spiritual decisions that we have made in our life together and see how they have blessed our lives and I recognize that the ideas for those decisions nearly always originate with Tammy.
One of her virtues and one of the first things I noticed about her when we were dating was her absolute honesty in everything. I have never, ever know Tammy to tell a lie of any sort. At first that was a little hard to take ("So, how do I look today?"), but I have grown to appreciate that characteristic so much. I've never had the slightest reason to ever distrust her in any way and that is such a comfort to me in our marriage.
Tammy is a hard worker when there is work to be done (and there always is at home) but also loves to have fun. She's not afraid to join the kids on the swings or slides at the park or scream at the top of her lungs going down a waterslide (I was a little embarrassed to be seen with her after that one).
Tammy is a caregiver not only to our family but to many others in our community. She is so kind and thoughtful, particularly to those who may otherwise be easily overlooked. She has blessed many people in many small but very signficant ways.
To those of you who are her family - THANK YOU. Thank you for raising your daughter/granddaughter/sister/niece/other to be the wonderful person that she is. She blesses my life every day and I love her with all of my heart.
Okay, now for the greedy part. I want to set a new record on this blog and I want it to be a record that will stand for as long as this blog is around. I want this entry to get a record number of comments (lets shoot for at least 30). I want everyone that reads this entry to post a comment (or two) and let us know what you think of Tammy (if you don't have nice things to say, at least wait until it's not her birthday to make your remarks!). If you don't know how to post a comment, all you have to do is click on the word "comments" below (beside where it says "posted by greg"). Then scroll to the bottom, type what you think. Where it says "Choose and identity" click "Other" and type in your name. Then click "Publish Your Comment". That's all there is to it! If you're a random visitor and don't happen to know Tammy, take my word for it and post something nice about her anyway. Oh, and get all your friends and neighbors to comment as well!
So, with that, I hope you have a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY Tammy!
Let me just start by talking about how good she is to me. As we've mentioned, this has been a very busy summer for me - especially at work. I've never really had to work a lot of overtime in my career, but the last month or so has seen a lot of it. I know that it's taken a toll on our family and on Tammy, but she never complains about it. On those really long nights, she would always greet me with a smile when I finally made it home.
Tammy is an outstanding mother (a quick look at our kids is proof of that)! Having four little ones six and under is no small chore, but she excels at it. On top of her "normal" duties as a mother (is being a mother ever really "normal" - I don't think so, but hopefully you know what I mean), she is going the extra mile by teaching Adam piano lessons, teaching Anna reading lessons, and spending many hours teaching in lots of other ways to all the kids. I recognize how obedient and thoughtful and intelligent and talented our little ones are and I attribute most of that to Tammy's outstanding skills as a mother.
I know it is a husband's duty to be spiritual leader in a home, but in this home, mom leads the way in that category (and in most other categories). Tammy has a deep and true testimony of the Gospel of Jesus Christ and it shows in every aspect of her life. She is regularly showing me the example when it comes to living the gospel and when she's not leading, she's gently prodding me in the right directions. I look back on many spiritual decisions that we have made in our life together and see how they have blessed our lives and I recognize that the ideas for those decisions nearly always originate with Tammy.
One of her virtues and one of the first things I noticed about her when we were dating was her absolute honesty in everything. I have never, ever know Tammy to tell a lie of any sort. At first that was a little hard to take ("So, how do I look today?"), but I have grown to appreciate that characteristic so much. I've never had the slightest reason to ever distrust her in any way and that is such a comfort to me in our marriage.
Tammy is a hard worker when there is work to be done (and there always is at home) but also loves to have fun. She's not afraid to join the kids on the swings or slides at the park or scream at the top of her lungs going down a waterslide (I was a little embarrassed to be seen with her after that one).
Tammy is a caregiver not only to our family but to many others in our community. She is so kind and thoughtful, particularly to those who may otherwise be easily overlooked. She has blessed many people in many small but very signficant ways.
To those of you who are her family - THANK YOU. Thank you for raising your daughter/granddaughter/sister/niece/other to be the wonderful person that she is. She blesses my life every day and I love her with all of my heart.
Okay, now for the greedy part. I want to set a new record on this blog and I want it to be a record that will stand for as long as this blog is around. I want this entry to get a record number of comments (lets shoot for at least 30). I want everyone that reads this entry to post a comment (or two) and let us know what you think of Tammy (if you don't have nice things to say, at least wait until it's not her birthday to make your remarks!). If you don't know how to post a comment, all you have to do is click on the word "comments" below (beside where it says "posted by greg"). Then scroll to the bottom, type what you think. Where it says "Choose and identity" click "Other" and type in your name. Then click "Publish Your Comment". That's all there is to it! If you're a random visitor and don't happen to know Tammy, take my word for it and post something nice about her anyway. Oh, and get all your friends and neighbors to comment as well!
So, with that, I hope you have a very HAPPY BIRTHDAY Tammy!
Tuesday, September 06, 2005
Missouri
Over labor day weekend, our family was invited to accompany our friends, the Staffords, on a camping excursion to Northern Missouri. They are preparing to move west and had never yet visited some of our church's historical sites in that area. Our lives have been so busy this summer (especially the last few weeks) that we decided that a short vacation was exactly what we needed despite the soaring costs of gasoline. So we paid our three dollars per gallon, loaded up the van (kudos to Tammy - she did all the packing and preparing - I was still working too many hours every night last week) and headed to Missouri.
We arrived late Friday evening just after sunset. There was just enough light to get the tent set up and everyone settled in. We awoke Saturday to distant thunder. We had just enough time to get the kids breakfast before the thunderstorm struck. There was enough lightening and thunder to scare the kids so that they all abandoned the tent and hid out in the van. Fortunatly, the rain didn't last long and the rest of the weekend was rather pleasant weather-wise.
After our soggy breakfast, we headed out to Liberty to visit the historic Liberty Jail. Tammy and I took turns tending screaming Ben, so didn't really get to enjoy that a whole lot. Adam seemed rather impressed by the whole experience though, he talked quite a bit about the things he learned and saw there. From Liberty, we all decided we needed to drive a while so the kids could sleep so we headed north to Adam-ondi-ahman. It was a perfect day to visit there - I could not imagine a more peaceful and beautiful place than Adam-ondi-ahman was that day. In previous visits, that's not been my favorite stop, but this time was much different - I really felt that I was standing in a sacred place. It made me want to learn more about what has and will yet occur in that beautiful valley. After Adam-ondi-ahman, we made brief visits to the site of the Haun's Mill massacre and to the Far West temple site before returning to camp.
On Sunday, we got up and got cleaned up for church - that's no small task with four little ones on a camping trip. We chose a ward in Liberty that didn't start until 11 a.m. so we had plenty of time to get there. We had the unusual experience of running into another family from our home (Bettendorf) ward who happened to be visiting the same ward we attended. After church and lunch, Tammy and I decided (well, at least I did) that we were tired of touring, so we decided to just enjoy a Sunday afternoon drive while our friends toured the sites in Independence. We headed back in the general direction of our campground and ended up at Watkin's Mill State Park. The park itself is beautifully wooded with rolling hills, hiking trails and a small lake. In the back of the park are several old buildings, including the mill for which the park was named, a one-room schoolhouse and an old church. We spent some time wandering around those sites and taking pictures of the kids - it was really an enjoyable time on a pleasant Sunday afternoon.
Monday we spent a little time at the lake where we were camping, taking the kids to the beach to swim a while before heading home.
It was a nice weekend altogether. Camping seems to get more challenging every time we go - we must be getting old or something. But overall it was very good to get away for the weekend, especially after such a crazy time we've had the past several weeks.
We arrived late Friday evening just after sunset. There was just enough light to get the tent set up and everyone settled in. We awoke Saturday to distant thunder. We had just enough time to get the kids breakfast before the thunderstorm struck. There was enough lightening and thunder to scare the kids so that they all abandoned the tent and hid out in the van. Fortunatly, the rain didn't last long and the rest of the weekend was rather pleasant weather-wise.
After our soggy breakfast, we headed out to Liberty to visit the historic Liberty Jail. Tammy and I took turns tending screaming Ben, so didn't really get to enjoy that a whole lot. Adam seemed rather impressed by the whole experience though, he talked quite a bit about the things he learned and saw there. From Liberty, we all decided we needed to drive a while so the kids could sleep so we headed north to Adam-ondi-ahman. It was a perfect day to visit there - I could not imagine a more peaceful and beautiful place than Adam-ondi-ahman was that day. In previous visits, that's not been my favorite stop, but this time was much different - I really felt that I was standing in a sacred place. It made me want to learn more about what has and will yet occur in that beautiful valley. After Adam-ondi-ahman, we made brief visits to the site of the Haun's Mill massacre and to the Far West temple site before returning to camp.
On Sunday, we got up and got cleaned up for church - that's no small task with four little ones on a camping trip. We chose a ward in Liberty that didn't start until 11 a.m. so we had plenty of time to get there. We had the unusual experience of running into another family from our home (Bettendorf) ward who happened to be visiting the same ward we attended. After church and lunch, Tammy and I decided (well, at least I did) that we were tired of touring, so we decided to just enjoy a Sunday afternoon drive while our friends toured the sites in Independence. We headed back in the general direction of our campground and ended up at Watkin's Mill State Park. The park itself is beautifully wooded with rolling hills, hiking trails and a small lake. In the back of the park are several old buildings, including the mill for which the park was named, a one-room schoolhouse and an old church. We spent some time wandering around those sites and taking pictures of the kids - it was really an enjoyable time on a pleasant Sunday afternoon.
Monday we spent a little time at the lake where we were camping, taking the kids to the beach to swim a while before heading home.
It was a nice weekend altogether. Camping seems to get more challenging every time we go - we must be getting old or something. But overall it was very good to get away for the weekend, especially after such a crazy time we've had the past several weeks.
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