Right on the heels of my birthday is Ben's birthday. On September 18th our Ben turned 6! I can still remember when he was a baby. He was such a quiet baby. Greg would ask me all the time, "Do you think he's OK?" I even asked the doctor about it. Of course Ben was OK. Now he has grown into a delightful, pleasant, happy boy who knows what he likes. He has an innate goodness about him. He tries so hard to do what is right. He looks for ways to help and lift others. Some of the things he loves and knows he is good at are soccer, cooking, and singing. He calls them his talents. He is right! All of those things bring him a lot of joy. And that brings me a lot of joy.
A lot is going on in his six year old life. He started kindergarten this year. We felt like he was ready last year (he missed the cut off by 3 days) and the transition has been a breeze for him, much easier than for the girls. He loves his teacher, Miss Manning (and so do I; she is wonderful). He loves to write numbers. He has a goal to write all the numbers from 1-1000 before parent teacher conferences which are Nov. 22. I think he is already at 600 something. I don't think he will have any problems meeting that goal. We also just got a note that he will be pulled out of class for small group work with the ELP teacher for reading. He is reading so well. His favorite things to read are the scripture readers we have. He has been reading the Old Testament one a lot lately. When he was first starting to read, I would have him read out loud out of those for 20 minutes a day. Now they are what he reads most. That makes a mother smile:)
He has recently lost 2 teeth and is sporting a cute gap in his mouth signaling this wonderful time in his life. He did very well in soccer this year. He is awesome at defending. He excels at offense when his team is struggling. When there is someone else who will take the lead he lets them and is there to help as needed, but when no one takes the lead, he gives it his all. It is because he wants to help the team. It has been fun for him to score some goals this fall.
He also loves helping in the kitchen. Greg is the baker in the family and patiently works with Ben in the kitchen at least once a week. They love doing that together, and we all love the results ;) I recently changed how chores are done in our home and now one of the chores the kids rotate through is helping with dinner. Ben has been my most enthusiastic helper. It is wonderful to have his company in the kitchen.
His singing also brings a lot of joy to our home. I usually sing one song to him each night before bed, but lately he's been asking to sing me a song. His teacher uses a lot of music in their class so he has had an ever expanding repertoire to share. He will also often ask me to sit down and play the piano on Sundays so we can sing together. I hope he will always love music. I think it is in his soul. Most recently the other kids have had a lot of fun playing "Heart and Soul" together. I have been working with Ben at the piano for about a year but he isn't where the other kids are yet, but one of them showed him how to play the higher part and he has patiently been working on it. It is sounding pretty good now. He will also often sing along as he practices his piano pieces, as most of them have words with them.
One last thing. He has the most wonderful smile! We are so grateful to have Ben in our home. I often think how grateful I feel for him right now and how grateful I am that he and Jake will still be here with us after the three older ones are gone. Is that weird to think about? Ben, we love you. Happy Sixth birthday!
Baby Ben at 5 months.
Ben at 2 years old.
Here is Ben on his first day of kindergarten.
These are the yummy doughnuts Ben and Greg made for us one Saturday morning. They are seriously the best doughtnuts EVER!!
Ben after losing his very first tooth. Now the gap is even bigger after losing the second one.
Ben wanted cupcakes for his birthday instead of a cake, so cupcakes he got. Chocolate with Strawberry (yes, pink) frosting. Happy Birthday Benner!
Our wonderful boy's smile. Isn't he cute?!!