In the spotlight: Ben

I am always glad when it is time to give Ben some recognition. He is such a great kid. He celebrated his 7th birthday on September 18th (yes, I know I am way behind!). As usual he chose to do something fun with the family instead of having a party. He loves his family! We all went to Tokens Family Fun Center to play Laser tag and glow in the dark mini golf. We always have fun doing that! He got his favorite meals and we all told him how awesome he is.

He really is an amazing kid. He is so kind and tries so hard to do what is right. He is already good at standing up for what is right. You see it in school, on the soccer field, and at home. He doesn't like to see people being treated unfairly or unkindly. He is so encouraging of Jacob. He tries to help him make good choices and has come up with these elaborate reward systems to help Jacob. What 7 year old does that? His teacher at school told me how helpful he is at school. She said some kids are helpful in a "look at me" kind of way, but Ben just likes to help, without being recognized. While we were talking about him (his teacher and I at conferences) I even started crying (so embarrassing!) because my heart just was so full. I love that even though he is quiet other people can recognize the goodness in him. I am so proud of him.

Ben loves to play the piano, play soccer, cook, play games, and play with his brothers and sisters. Since we have moved he doesn't have any really close friends, but it doesn't seem to bother him a bit. He really feels happy playing with his siblings. He is working hard trying to finish "The Book of Mormon" this year before he is baptized next year. He is more generous than most kids I know. He tries really hard. We feel so blessed to have Ben in our family. He makes all of us want to be a little bit better.

Ben at 5 months.

Ben just before his 2nd birthday

Ben holding Jacob. This is just before Ben's 3rd birthday.

Ben at 4 1/2.

I just had to include this one. This is Ben on his birthday this year.

Ben in our present chair. Anna happy to pose while she presents Ben with her gift for him.